I notice quite a few new members popping up who vanish within days, weeks, or months without a trace. They mention being chaste while locked for short periods, like just a few hours. But is that truly chastity if it happens between your usual orgasm cycles? I struggle to see how it counts. If I only masturbate once weekly, does being locked until the urge arises count as true chastity, or am I merely using a device similar to a sex toy?
I’m just wondering what most people consider chaste by definition. Is abstaining from smoking between cigarettes enough to call someone a non-smoker? For me, real chastity starts only when I desire it to end. To me, the essence of chastity is being pushed past my body’s desperate need for an orgasm. The cage itself is secondary; its main job is just to provide a hurdle that pauses me before I give in and climax. We are all capable of orgasming while locked using a vibrator or other methods, so it isn’t the device alone that grants us chastity. Rather, it is our willingness to obey, love, and please our keyholders beyond our personal limits that defines it. My way happens to be THE right way (as usual), though like any fetish, there are many variations. Some might classify using plastic handcuffs and non-stinging whips as BDSM, which they sell in kits. I am just curious about your definitions: is chastity simply being locked for a few hours or a day, or does it require pushing longer than you truly want to?