Female led relationships discussion

I’ve never felt like I lost my sense of self during all the sexual play we had today. We were always more than a standard couple, and in those early years, I was the dominant partner who kept her tied up with regular bondage, anal, and spanking. Over time, our dynamic flipped; she became the one taking charge, enjoying nipple clamps, restraint, teasing, denial, and having full control over our sex life. It’s unusual for a Saturday morning to not begin with coffee and lovemaking. Through everything, my masculinity held strong, even since we began using chastity devices last October. Usually, she locks me away for one or two weeks at a time, with shorter breaks in between. Last weekend seemed more intense than usual; she took her pleasure, denied mine, and quickly put the cage back on. I still felt like a man. The day started without any teasing or promise of sex or release. She scolded me last night to make it clear that deciding when and how we have intercourse is now entirely up to her. This morning, she walked in, threw me the key, but warned me strictly: no cumming allowed. Once she climbed on top, I tried to touch her hips and legs, only to get slapped for assuming permission without asking. She adjusted my position and rode until she reached her orgasm. For a moment, she kept just the tip inside while gently bouncing up and down before declaring herself done and rolling off. I was frustrated but still masculine. Then she stood over the bed, looking at my hard penis, and said, “Go clean yourself up and put that cage back on!” It felt like a prom date gone terribly wrong where sex was forced upon me without even a kiss. I pointed this out to her, and she replied that she was simply turning me into her bitch and considering herself lucky if she wasn’t craving pegging instead. Masculinity lost!