Following a brief medical hiatus after nine weeks of denying myself orgasms, my wife has me locked up once more until Valentine’s Day. Regardless of life’s circumstances, we always seem to end up with me in chastity and denied right around V-Day. We haven’t fully recovered yet, but I certainly miss being caged; I crave that sense of constant arousal and how responsive I am even to the slightest touch. When I’m not locked away, my interest in sex wanes, and I don’t treat my wife as kindly as I ought.
Over the past four years, my wife has shifted from quite submissive to much more dominant. She’s shed her guilt about denying me orgasms and doesn’t hesitate to send me out of the room so she can enjoy some solitude. I only get told when it’s time to come back for TV or must stay in the man cave until given permission to sit with her in the living room. Surprisingly, while unlocked, I didn’t feel much urge to watch porn or masturbate. I’m not sure why, but without my cage, I feel bored and notice a clear drop in energy.
The last thing is that when I am free, it’s tough handling my wife’s newly found dominant side; instead of obeying as I do after weeks of denial, I tend to push back. I think I’m hooked on chastity—I wonder if there’s a patch for that!:) Just finished locking up the Jailbird again this time trying out the padlock rather than the security screw. The screw tends to loosen so it can be unscrewed by hand unless you do one of two things: use Blue Locktite, or go with my usual method using Teflon tape like plumbers do for pipes. The downside of taping is that if you don’t get the amount just right, it gets too tight to screw in properly or stops before seating fully. Sometimes I’d spend 15 minutes tightening it a quarter turn at a time. It’s baffling why MM made the key round; there isn’t much surface area for a firm grip, especially when your hands are slick with lube. Can be a real pain.
So, locked up until V-Day we go. We’ll likely take a break afterward before diving into another two-month denial period leading up to my birthday. At our age, 24/7 lockup just isn’t feasible anymore due to medical issues popping up too often for constant wear and tear. So we stick to the routine: one or two months of locked denial followed by a month or two off before starting again. We’ll play it by ear based on how we feel physically.