Before our daughter was born we had a good three years of this. Then she arrived and everything stopped, entirely reasonably, and we have not restarted.
She is fourteen months now. Things are more or less normal in every other way. Neither of us has raised it, and I have started to wonder whether we have both been waiting for the other one to, or whether my wife has quietly stopped wanting it and does not know how to say so.
Has anyone come back from a long pause like this? How did the conversation start?