no_hardware_h Newcomer Thread starter My partner and I have been doing denial for about a year. She decides, I do not. There is no device involved at all, because there is nothing here for one to go on in the way everyone here describes.
Nearly everything I read on this board is about hardware. Sizing, materials, cleaning, things pinching. None of that is my life. The rest of it, the stuff about mood and rules and how you talk about it, seems to apply exactly.
Am I missing a set of practical questions I should be asking, or is the honest answer that without a device this is mostly a rules-and-trust arrangement and there is nothing to maintain?