wordless_wonder Newcomer Thread starter I have wanted to try orgasm control for years but I have never said it out loud to a partner. We have a good relationship and a normal sex life, and I am terrified of making it weird or of her thinking something is wrong with what we already have.
How did you first bring this up? I do not even know what words to use that do not sound clinical, or like a complaint about our current setup. Any scripts or ways in that worked for you?
