My partner has floated the idea of a friend of hers taking over the deciding for a month. Nothing physical, nothing that involves meeting, just that this other person would be the one setting the terms and my partner would step back.
My instant reaction was no. My reaction an hour later was that I do not fully know why it was no, which is why I am posting rather than just saying no.
For anyone who has done anything like this, what should I actually be thinking about?