softlanding_q Newcomer Thread starter Most aftercare advice I read is about intense scenes, blankets and water and all of that. Our dynamic is more of a slow ongoing denial thing without big dramatic sessions, so it feels a bit odd to do formal aftercare.
But some evenings I still feel low or a little disconnected afterward. Do you do aftercare in a quieter ongoing dynamic, and if so, what does it even look like when there was no scene to come down from?
