My partner has put together a whole scheme. Points for things, a chart, a running total, rewards at thresholds. She has clearly spent hours on it and she is delighted with it.
It does absolutely nothing for me and something about it makes me feel small in the wrong way. Not the intended way. The way you feel when someone gives you a sticker.
She has asked twice how I am finding it and I have said it is great. I am aware that this is now a bigger problem than it was two weeks ago.