into_the_deep_end Newcomer Thread starter My partner and I want to try keyholding properly, where she holds the decision about my release for longer stretches rather than just for a scene. Neither of us has done anything at this level before.
For those of you in an established dynamic, how did you actually set it up? I do not really know how to negotiate something like this without either making it sound clinical or getting carried away. How do you agree the rules and keep it fair once real life gets in the way?
