We are new to the chastity lifestyle and just seeking some advice from experienced members. I am his mistress, and he is my little sissyboi who loves cross-dressing and being my pretty little s*ut. We have been together for five years, with our kinks expanding over time. We feel extremely lucky because NO subject is off-limits regarding our fantasies/kinks, and we’ve had plenty of fun exploring them. Male chastity has essentially become the natural next step in our dom/sub dynamic. We received our device yesterday and didn’t have much trouble putting it on for the first time. He slept in it without issue and is now at work safely locked away! Since he was a habitual masturbator (at least once daily) since age 12, having me control his pleasure is one of the most exciting parts for us. A few questions to those with experience: How long should he stay locked up initially? Should this be a gradual progression? Will skin irritation be an issue? Looking forward to any and all information/experience you can share! Thank you!
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