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I know this has probably been covered many time before, my wife is still not into this and I’m looking for ways to help her/me. We started playing with this last September on and off, and so far she has agreed to hide the key from me. I think for her she has the typical response…why? I think she may be uncomfortable with the extra help and attention she gets (yes, I am aware we can be anoying so I do give her space). But I know she like the back/neck rubs and going to sleep spooning and just cuddling that doesn’t always lead to sex. What can I do to help explain, its hard to put it into words. Thanks