Greetings everyone and a lovely morning to you! Let me introduce myself, Mistress Bella. My Slave doesn’t need an intro because he hasn’t earned one yet; we’ll just call him Boy. I’m 28 years old and Boy is 29. We’re newcomers here but fitting in perfectly. I’ve taken charge of my newly acquired penis, and he has submitted not only to that but also in numerous other ways. I often wonder why I didn’t lock him up earlier in our relationship. We have been together for over four years now, and I am certain never to let him regain control of his dick…ever. I adore this lifestyle and the constant authority I hold over him.
Anyway, my reason for posting is straightforward, and I’m sure it has been asked repeatedly (in fact…I know it has because I’ve spent days searching online and finding myself drawn to this site frequently enough that I decided to join rather than lurk silently). I need some beginner techniques for CBT and punishments for breaking the rules I have set. I’ve found several options I like and devised a few of my own, but I am always open to more ideas.
Last night, while he was locked (his first time outside our home since we haven’t bought a proper device yet; he’s been wearing his DIY contraption), I sent him on an errand. He had to go to the adult store and buy two items: one thing for my sexual pleasure and another that would cause him pain. He departed at 6:30 pm and returned home by 11:30 (he received a penalty because this duration was too long for his weekend evening duty of licking my pussy), but he came back with MANY gifts offering both pleasure and pain.
His haul included a pussy pump (um…glorious is the only word) and nipple suction cups (also glorious), which were meant for me…Good Boy. Then there were clothespins, spatulas for spanking/slapping, BenGay, candles, rubber bands, and finally his ultimate torture choice: an Electric Shock treatment kit:) Muah wah ha ha ha ha <---- that is my evil laugh by the way:)
We have many other toys from when I worked as a cam girl, so we possess plenty of strap ons, dildos, and butt plugs along with vibrators and lubricants.
Boy pleasured me for hours using the pump, suckers, and my HUGE blue dildo that makes me climax so intensely I soak the bed (literally), plus his tongue. Boy was teased and punished. He hasn’t climaxed in three days today marks four, though he doesn’t know it yet. I never tell him if he will be permitted to cum that day, or ever again for that matter. I utilized the clothespins, employed some hand-to-cock CBT methods like ball tapping and slapping as well as cock slapping. He remained flaccid most of the night because his device left him slightly pinched and chafed…this really annoyed me since I prefer having him fully attentive while teasing/torturing him. So I applied the electric shock machine. Boy claims it is definite torture, which makes me smile wickedly… but then even worse, I rubbed BenGay onto his balls, which was agonizing:)
Since this was his first real torture session, I permitted him to shower and wash off the BenGay as he used the safeword while wearing them. But I wasn’t finished with him. I made him pleasure me further, and we were both becoming tired. Yet I am allowed to tire; he is not. Boy fell asleep literally with his face pressed against my pussy. I pushed him away, ignored his apologies, and knew I would punish him today for last night’s infractions. This morning, I had him edge twice. This is the sixth time I’ve made him edge, and I derive great pleasure from it as I know it hurts him deeply.
So any ideas for further punishment etc. for new beginners are much appreciated. Also more ways for him to please me because his eating my ass and pussy won’t suffice for long. :) Mistress Bella