Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

We began our chastity journey a few months back. I liked the denial, but having that cage on constantly left me hot and irritated—mostly because those body-ring cages never quite fit us right. Eventually we stopped locking up and returned to how things used to be with sex. About a month later, I got my frenum pierced, yet chastity didn’t really come into play until roughly last week. We had a nasty argument that left both of us fuming, and it was then she realized she preferred me much more when I’m locked. So, starting just a few days ago, I’ve been on the honor system unless I’m by myself; if so, my old cage goes back on. We’ve ordered a Cage 7 ringless model that will be secured once it arrives. Honestly, I’d forgotten how tough those initial days are, especially since she seems to really push home the edging. I was told there’s likely a full release coming for Christmas, but who knows what’ll happen after that—I’m pretty much in the dark now.