Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Wife’s Submissive said: My wife loves to have me locked up in chastity so I can’t play with myself or cheat on her. I never have cheated on her and never would. Been over three weeks now since last unlock for piv. Due to some pain she has it doesn’t ever seem on her mind although she wears the key around her neck. I have mentioned to her about teasing me periodically which doesn’t happen. However I think it seems that she is waiting on me to initate everything. I love being locked up and haven’t gotten to the point of it driving me crazy not being able to get an erection or orgasm. I know it will. I don’t want to seem like I am topping from the bottom though by being the one to initiate. Should I though? Click to expand… I wouldn’t try to initiate anything right now. Some women don’t have the urge as much as we do. My wife never really initiates sex, but since she has locked me up she has started too. Only twice since she locked me up two weeks ago. With no release for me but she has had some great organisms with me massaging and playing with her. I think that most women, I could be wrong, enjoy that more than the penetration. Let me know if I’m wrong ladies. You definitely do NOT want to top from the bottom. That’s the point of being locked up she decides if and when you get release, IF at all. The best thing you can do is serve her and pay attention to all her needs. That’s what I have learned, mainly from all the wonderful people here on this site. It’s not about you and your needs JUST HERS. Hope this is helpful to you. Keep everyone updated on how things are going. Good luck