Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

It’s our custom that my wife—or back in the day, both her and her girlfriend—paddle or whip my behind to correspond with how old I am. The one given for good luck is typically a really solid hit from the cane. Does anyone else spank or do similar things on their birthdays? Unlike friends who receive extra special birthday sex—which usually means oral sex or their yearly regular intercourse—I remain locked up and help my wife achieve a few orgasms. She loves having intense orgasm moments while paying little mind to my restrained penis. When we had our girlfriend along, they took turns caning my backside as I performed oral on the other woman. My wife reached climax in just a few minutes, particularly when I cried out from the sting. Our girlfriend needed more time, but luckily being petite meant she didn’t hurt quite as much as her partner did. So what are your birthday treats?