Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

How would you describe a firm keyholder? That’s an important question since we’re asking for your vote.:) For the sake of argument, imagine she expects you to stay locked around the clock unless it’s truly inconvenient. You can treat ‘convenient’ as anything that might disrupt your work, hobbies, or health checks. By this measure, a firm keyholder is someone who ensures you remain secured when expected and holds total authority over your sexual life and orgasm frequency/timing. You don’t get to decide how many times you cum or exactly when those moments happen, nor do you choose the timing for intercourse. Previously, I had input on having at least so many orgasms per year plus weekly sex. That dynamic has shifted now. I view my wife as a firm keyholder under this definition. If I complain about her control over our intimate life, she paddles me, which keeps me silent. You can check the outcomes of those sessions in my photo album; that was just us trying out new implements like a paddle and cane. She prefers not to cause unnecessary pain, so when she does spank me, she ensures I don’t give her another excuse to do it again. It sounds odd perhaps, but there is logic behind it. So, do you view your keyholder as firm?