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Do KHs "Delay" Their Orgasms More?

member_1f4b997c2b · 2026-08-24T18:06:47.000Z · 0 replies

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I’m uncertain about how to frame this and maybe someone has mentioned it before, but during our nearly three years in chastity, my KH/wife appears to take longer reaching orgasm. She is also more capable of having multiple ones, usually experiencing them with a “big, bang, boom” intensity.

I’ve always loved foreplay and am an oral addict (giving rather than receiving, though I suspect most caged men are too), so that aspect hasn’t changed during our intimate moments. We had started using toys before the chastity journey began, so she is open to non-PIV ways of achieving orgasm. Regardless of whether it’s through mouth, fingers, a toy, or my penis—or any combination—it still seems like she takes longer. I’ll concede that with such a small sample size for comparison, she was always an easy climber, though often one-and-done unless she had a drink. Because I am so enthusiastic about foreplay and oral stimulation, I like to think it’s due to my technique.

Perhaps the simple answer is “duh, why did you start chastity? - To benefit her by having me focus more on her pleasure.” However, as we continue down this path, she seems to delay her orgasm longer and longer. Just wanted to bring up a discussion topic.

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