We have been practicing chastity for about seven to eight months now. My wife seems to enjoy it, though she has never shown much interest in locking me up herself. Wearing the device is entirely my choice: if I need to resist temptation and keep myself locked, I do so; otherwise, I remain free.
Lately, I have grown accustomed to sleeping at night even when aroused. As a result, I am using the device less frequently—essentially operating on an honor system. This works well because I rarely touch myself (my self-control is quite good). There was only one instance early on where I begged for release, but that occurred during the first two or three days of denial anyway, and my wife allowed me to have an orgasm (it wasn’t something I did independently).
I wonder if any other forum members share this experience? Do you also find that the device is almost unnecessary?