Hi there, I’m Damish. Please forgive any typos!
After a lovely and affectionate trip to Rome, I gathered the courage to share my dream of Male Chastity with my wife. My heart was racing as I asked her to read a lengthy letter I’d written during the night before.
The letter detailed how my unmet sexual drive had pushed me toward more secret and extreme measures, such as multiple self-piercing sessions, needleplay, and plugs. These were all things I did on my own to feed my kinky imagination and lust.
We’ve been having regular sex for years—just the usual routine stuff—but while we’d gotten skilled at it over time, I wasn’t truly satisfied, and I seriously doubt she was either.
In the letter, I told her I didn’t want this secret sexual life anymore. I wanted a shared experience: no secrets, no taboos. I wanted to become a man who focused more on her needs, both sexually and in daily life. I suggested that controlled orgasm denial and Chastity could be the solution for us.
I promised to give up complete control of my cock, allowing release only once a week under our contract.
When she looked at me with a mix of surprise and tenderness—my heart pounding harder than ever—I was thrilled. She agreed! I couldn’t believe it.
It’s been two months now, and we are both extremely happy with how things have turned out. A definite shift has occurred.
Initially, my focus was on the sex itself—the number of releases, the Chastity device (the CB6000 and others)—but soon I experienced a radical change within myself. Above all else, I just wanted to please and serve my wife in every way possible. And I do. Last night, after being denied for 11 days, I was allowed release. It was wonderful. She permitted penetration after I had served her tenderly for some time without going over the edge (as she ordered). Yet, when it came, I went like a rocket, spilling a huge load all over and inside her.
During those 11 days of denial, besides massages etc., I enjoyed serving her numerous times. She always climaxed strongly, which satisfied me deeply. Her pleasure was my pleasure too. It really is true what the blogs say—it works like that!:)
Having released even before she finished made me feel a bit frustrated; it seemed not quite right yet. But then she saved me again. “You are not done,” she said, pushing my head down. “Do me, and clean up your mess.” I could tell this was a major turn-on for her, and of course, I obeyed to my pleasant surprise. The taste of us mixed together was intoxicating, and when she came, I felt like we were in the seventh heaven…
I look forward to serving her this way many more times. It’s the ultimate display of control and obedience.
This morning, after serving her breakfast, she told me that she has never been so happy in her life before—and I said the exact same thing for myself. I can’t wait to experience more of this wonderful lifestyle..
I have a small chrome padlock inserted into one of my previous piercings on my cock, inscribed with “Owned by” and my wife’s name. I wear it with pride 24/7. I will only be unlocked when she wants my cock inside her. She keeps the key on a silver chain around her neck or waist—visible to everyone but hiding its true meaning from them. It makes me so proud of her…
I don’t wear a Chastity device anymore, and I have no plans to cheat!! I want to show her that this lock in my cock is all I need to stay out of touching myself—I just managed 11 days!—and I really am capable of doing nothing. Only washing is allowed, plus holding the padlock when sitting down to pee. She has such strong control over me that I simply cannot disobey. I love her and this new way of life too much…
Cheers, BlueEyes - from Denmark