Shortly after January began, my Spouse/Keyholder put in place a new rule for my releases. Essentially, she permits just one release each month, typically on or near the final day of the month. After living with this routine for several months, I’ve noticed that while the first and last weeks aren’t too bad, the middle weeks can be quite tough at times. Her teasing and denial between these periods are fairly limited. Our usual sexual encounters involve PIV intercourse where she uses a Hatachi wand to achieve multiple orgasms herself, while I remain unable to cum. My monthly release usually follows hers, delivered via the wand along with a slow hand stroke from her.
This month brought another shift. She has been reading “Uniquely Rika,” which suggests that a genuine submissive should be able to stay chaste even without wearing a device. Since we are both retired and spend nearly all our time together 24/7, and neither of us planned any separation this month, she wanted me to test it out. We have one week left, and so far, I’m doing well. I am permitted to stroke occasionally but must not cum. She keeps a close watch on me and mentions that if she leaves me home alone, the device will likely come back into play. At my age (60), I’ve discovered that getting past early afternoon significantly reduces frustration until it returns in the early morning.
I usually stand next to the bed while she lies down for PIV sex so she can utilize the wand effectively. She has long disliked how the locking post on the MM device’s base ring protrudes during intercourse. By the time she is ready, I am often too aroused to remove the base ring myself. Even though I have rotated it into different positions, she can still feel it occasionally as I thrust, which tends to make me reach cumming faster than when the ring is off.
I haven’t shared much about our progress here, but this represents where we stand today. I believe she would like to extend these chaste periods even further because it seems to enhance my submissive nature and leads to better quality erections and more passionate lovemaking from me, according to her opinion. This is a lovely way of living that fosters an incredible loving bond. Each day, I find myself enjoying serving her just a little bit more.