Does repeatedly bringing yourself to the brink and back over an extended period, without letting go of your orgasm, help you develop better control? I used to think that going longer without release would make me cum faster, but I’ve read that for some people it actually helps them last longer. I saw a video clip of someone on day 36 of no-orgasm who was locked in a metal cage. His wife let him out and then edged him for about thirty minutes while filming. It seemed like real-time footage without much editing, as he hovered right at the edge repeatedly. After she finished, she placed a bag of frozen peas on him to help him go soft so they could put his cage back on.
That made me wonder if that’s typical behavior. I was imagining that if it were me, the moment I got free I’d be shooting everywhere.:) So what do you all think? Do you learn to hold off more effectively after a long stretch of T&D with no orgasm? And does anyone here use this method specifically to train their ability to control when they cum?