My spouse and I enjoy switching between submissive and dominant roles. For instance, we play games like bingo to determine the winner, recording results in a notebook. The victor earns a reward—an orgasm delivered however they prefer—and it must be claimed within two days or it goes up in smoke. The loser is denied release entirely. If I lose, my partner chooses whether I get edging, a ruined climax, or nothing at all. When I win, we usually have intercourse, but she isn’t permitted to reach an orgasm (which is simple for her). However, she dislikes being edged. The beauty of this setup is that she might rack up 4-5 consecutive wins (or more). During those streaks, I endure denial for several days, typically no longer than ten because prolonged abstinence bores us both. It’s rare for either of us to win more than five times in a row—that would mean ten days total—and we enjoy alternating between male and female denial periods. The only drawback is that if I secure 4-5 wins consecutively, I experience frequent climaxes over an extended period, which grows tedious since my excitement dips after the first couple. Meanwhile, her lack of arousal when she loses isn’t as pronounced… though this seems typical for women. Any suggestions to keep our game engaging? Thanks
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