Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone, I’m Duchess—Domme, partner, lover, and friend to valsboy. My boy stumbled upon this site, and I have to say it feels very relaxed, filled with folks who are open and honest. This is my first time on forums; until now, I’ve just been reading what he showed me. He’s definitely the more kink-oriented of us two. But I’m finding my dominant side, which has been growing gradually over our two years together. I recently took control after we had a long talk about what each of us wanted—he decided to be my sub, and I wanted to lock him up tight. Since we’ve done lots of role play before, I want to bring that control into our everyday life now. We have kids in the household and live apart for now, so let’s see where it leads. I had a suspicion that someone was topping from the bottom, but we’ve decided to call it guiding me until true dominance fully kicks in. Our relationship is loving and growing every day; this control is just another piece of our complex life. He fulfills me in countless ways. I’ll be sharing my experiences and thoughts here, welcoming advice from you all, and I look forward to chatting.