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After spending a day (including sleeping with it locked on) in this state of chastity, here is what I think. I received my device (The Asylum from Extreme Restraints) yesterday and put it on. It’s a solid steel cage structure. After researching extensively, it already felt familiar to me. My first thought was about how heavy and bulky it seemed because of the steel construction. I appreciated that heaviness. The CB6000 or those plastic-style options don’t seem hardcore enough for my taste. Putting it on was tricky since I started getting erections just thinking about wearing it. Eventually, I managed to get it secured, including a urethral insert (which is also brand new to me). Right away, there was a fresh sensation: being unable to touch my penis felt strange. I caught myself squeezing the cage, but because it’s solid steel, it doesn’t yield much. I paced around my house for a while. The soft clinking of the padlock amused me. I just carried on with my day at home (work was already done), and even though I was busy reading and gaming a bit, I remained constantly aware that I was locked up. Is that normal? Probably. Then I went out to grab a beer with friends while still wearing it (I kept the key in my pocket). It felt like a huge inside joke known only to me. The cage doesn’t show through jeans at all, but I did find myself rubbing against it under the table and through my denim. The best part is that the metal bars feel incredibly solid. Almost like ribs or something. What’s next? So far, I really enjoy how it feels. My next step is to test out long-term wear. Starting with a week. And also wearing it in situations where it would be most noticeable. Dinner with friends. Gym visits. I still have zero plans of telling anyone about this in my daily life, but eventually, I’d like to find an online keyholder. That idea sounds exactly right.