not_my_flavour Newcomer Thread starter Everything I read seems to come with a side order of humiliation, and it is a total switch off for me. Not offended by it, not judging anyone, it just does nothing for me and quite a lot of it makes me wince.
What I am actually interested in is the control part. Someone else deciding, me not deciding, and the effect that has on how I feel through the week.
Is that a normal thing to want on its own, or is it a package deal in practice?