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member_a2a76baad1 · 2026-09-09T21:23:34.000Z · 0 replies

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2026-09-09T21:23:34.000Z #1

My wife and I are arguing over whether I get a full orgasm or a ruined one, and if I stay locked up after climaxing or can wait until January 1st.

I gave my wife four slips of paper, told her to pick one for our outcome. Her options were:

  • Full orgasm with lock-up afterwards until Valentine’s Day
  • Ruined orgasm with lock-up afterwards until Valentine’s Day
  • Full orgasm and unlocked until Jan 1
  • Ruined orgasm and unlocked until Jan 1. I’m not sure if that allows me to masturbate or if it relies on the honor system.

I didn’t want to know her choice right away; I prefer discovering it in bed about two hours from now. I’ve taken a Viagra, have my new Fleshlight (which my wife bought), and am ready for whatever happens.

Originally, I was going to just get a full orgasm and remain unlocked indefinitely, but then my wife uttered the magic words: she is doing this because I asked her to. After 5 years, I still worry that she does things thinking it’s what I want rather than what she wants. In a way, that shows love, but after such a great sex life, I really want her to enjoy herself for once.

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