Over the past couple of days, I’ve been getting a real sense of what it’s like to be commanded ‘no wanking’—meaning hands off—from a Domme I met in session but stayed connected with. It’s been quite an interesting experience; when she texted me after our meeting saying ‘no wanking!’, I felt a thrill run through me.
I later clarified that this means no masturbation of the cock, as opposed to just not cumming (though some allow edging for other purposes, like helping focus on the Domme).
The next day, I saw her again at a club event and we exchanged texts. Later during club night, she ordered me around and applied slight CBT using a crocodile clip on my cock tip. This had an effect where I found myself thinking of her even while she was elsewhere. It also felt meaningful to relate mentally, physically, and emotionally to another Superior in this way.
At the same time, I was asked to attend to her feet and fetch drinks for her, acting as a sort of maid-like helper, pet, and sissy-type sub on hand at the club.
I’ve combined this with orders from an online site that provides Masturbation Control directives (which gave me three days to comply). My assumption is that direct commands from a Domme can override those automated site orders.
Those are some of the details, but it feels like another step into the realm of chastity-type experiences. I’ve noticed my nipples and other areas becoming more sensitive.
Update: It’s been about a day since then, and I still haven’t cummed. I’m wondering where to take this next. A reassessment was mentioned. Meanwhile, I’ve come across information suggesting that masturbation might be permitted sometimes without cumming. I wonder what the aims are for each approach and what policies regarding the ‘penis or cock’ might apply.
Anyway, I still feel the effects as described above; it has been meaningful to maintain this connection with another Superior.