Chastity in vanilla life discussion

After four months of mental chastity with my wife, I’m wondering if she is conditioning me through this practice. Has anyone else experienced something similar? If so, how did the conditioning happen and what was it like? My wife has stayed quite vanilla. I self-lock in a device to remind myself of my commitment, but she hasn’t taken my key yet. In other discussions, I’ve described our relationship: essentially, all my orgasms over these past four months have come from her. I don’t touch myself at all sometimes I climax while penetrating her, but that usually only occurs if I can’t hold out long enough to satisfy her first. When that happens, I use my lips and tongue on her until she finishes. More often, I last until she has had a chance to orgasm. Afterward, she straddles me as I lie on my back and manually stimulates me. As I get close, I let her know and ask permission to climax. She then tells me she wants me to release before finally letting go of all that pent-up desire. This routine has been our pattern for the last four months. Recently, two changes have occurred: 1) Looking at pornography no longer arouses me much; most arousal comes only when I see or touch my wife. Consequently, porn viewing is now mostly about finding new ideas we can try or fantasize over together. 2) My orgasms happen almost immediately after she tells me to cum. Previously, I waited until the very edge before asking permission. Now, she doesn’t wait for my question and simply commands it. This has happened several times. She knows exactly what is happening because her face lights up with a broad smile as if being obeyed were a compliment. I love the idea that my orgasms are becoming conditioned to my wife’s presence and demands. It certainly seems like this is occurring. Are others experiencing this or purposefully conditioning their partners in this way?