Female led relationships discussion

Hi all, For the last five or six years, I’ve been under my wife’s control in a female-led dynamic where she holds the keys to chastity. Gradually, piece by piece, she has taken away every bit of independence I used to have. Now I live as a full-time financial and domestic servant, spending most days at her feet. I seldom get release; it only happens if I manage to please her consistently over time. Even though I try hard to be obedient and serve well, she sometimes finds me irritating in subtle ways. For instance, when we’re out, I might refuse to pay with the card bearing her name just in case they don’t accept it, or I’ll insist on walking a few meters further down for a crossing instead of jaywalking like she wants. These seem like tiny details, but they bother me instinctively. She sees them as small rebellions and thinks I’m digging my heels in. At times, she calls me annoyingly logical. I was wondering if anyone else here has gone through something similar and can offer advice on handling these kinds of situations. It feels like I have a rigid way of doing things that’s hard to shake off lol. Submitting is easy for the big parts of life; it’s just these little niggles that seem difficult for both her and me to let go. Thanks for reading.