Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone I thought it was high time to make a formal introduction, so here goes My spouse is a woman who doesn’t quite deserve me and I have a habit of chronic masturbation. Roughly twelve months back while browsing porn sites I came across male chastity with the hope that as a kink it might also help control my M issue. My wife tends to be very vanilla, so I began suggesting she take “charge” over my orgasms; I purchased a cage, ran some trials, bought her a lovely jewelry Key necklace, and presented the proposal to her I voiced my worries that I was retreating into porn and self-pleasure and desired her assistance in stopping. She took offense at the comment about porn but seemed okay with me wanting her awareness and help curbing my release when necessary; however, she flipped out once the cage appeared. Her main question concerned how she would respond to this role. I had read much about FLR and its benefits for women, which aligned with what I wanted to offer. Conversely, all she perceived was a cold steel cage that I insisted on wearing while asking her to manage my release schedule. It makes sense now Our libidos sit at opposite ends of the spectrum; mine is high and hers low. Frankly, my personal escape has contributed significantly to our making love being an event occurring only 4-8 times annually My neglect toward her, and consequently our family, combined with asking her to rectify a situation I created, meant it was just another duty added to her list. Thus, while I desired more sexual frequency, there seemed little benefit for her. We have now circled back around to another LOC-tober period. I still wish to be better for her, so I have focused on ensuring the cage fits perfectly and am currently self-locking. I’ve truly stepped up my game both at home and with her. The road ahead is long as we undo what I’ve done, but I hope she eventually realizes I’m trying to change and might choose to help me become a better version of myself I hope this introduction wasn’t too lengthy Cam H