I’ve been into Chasity for ages (picked up my first cage back in the late ’90s). My wife hasn’t really taken it seriously or shown much interest, so I never pushed too hard but also couldn’t let go. Over the years, I bought plenty of books and read them, always giving her the chance to pick one up too. About two years ago, things began shifting slowly. Back then, I was using a plastic device that could only last 1-2 days max.
Thanks to this Forum, we decided to try metal. We found an MM Jailbird in our size, but unfortunately, it still didn’t fit quite right. Even with extra oval BaseRings ordered, I couldn’t hit the comfort level needed to cross the 1-3 day hurdle and usually ended up needing a week plus rest days. My wife wasn’t particularly excited by that. Since I’m a grower, I suspect that’s the core issue; my scrotum would get sore and painful.
Since then, we’ve been experimenting with honor system lockup and denial, which has really helped her grasp this Kink/Fetish better. Massaging her, cuddling, and serving her multiple times a day seemed to spark more desire in her. We/She realized some things needed to change.
Our play sessions have increasingly included fantasy elements that get us both hotter. These ideas kept coming up repeatedly: First, one day I’d be allowed to cum inside her again (without a Condom) and would need to clean up my mess afterward. She wants me to position myself between her legs and lick her clean. For starters, she offered to train me by sitting on my Face with no escape route. Sorry, that’s just a massive turn-on for me.
Then we drifted into the idea of her being serviced by a real Cock while I continue licking. She loves Oral sex, so having a bigger Cock inside her would be ideal. She also noted I’d likely end up licking his Cock too since they’re close together, which makes my load burst out more easily. This was discussed over and over again. Then she added that once he’s tried it on her, he needs to Fuck me as well. Naturally, I quickly chimed in that I could even help him get hard for her by sucking and licking his Cock before penetration. Writing this is making me drip.
Now things are turning into reality. A few days ago, I had a Vasectomy, which means one day soon I can cum inside her again. In the coming weeks, we’re adding a PA (Penile Anchor). I even offered to let her “pearl” my little guy, but she put that on hold for now. Once everything is sorted and healed, a new device will adorn me; she’s gone with Lori’s Nr. 1.
I must say, after years of wanting this so often, it’s finally becoming real. I’m enjoying every Second of the process and looking forward to this new adventure in our Life.