Hey, I introduced my girlfriend to tease and denial a while back and she loves it. I started by showing her some videos of it. While watching one video, a chastity cage appeared on screen; I knew what it was and had always wanted to try one, so I suggested we get one and we did. We’ve had it for a few months now, and she really enjoys seeing my cock swell in the device and how much I focus on her sexual needs while I am locked. However, she often feels guilty that I can’t cum and unlocks me; the longest shes ever kept me lock is about 1hr max.
She also likes it when she plays with the cage and teases me, asking if I want to be unlocked. At first, I say no, but eventually she gets serious and asks if I actually do want to be freed. If I say yes, she’ll unlock me immediately, but I’d prefer her to make the decision on whether it comes off or not.
So, I’m just asking if there’s anything I can suggest or show her to help her become more controlling, as I know it’s mostly guilt that holds her back since she does love the experience.