Just a quick hello I’m fairly new to this scene; I had a brief introduction about ten years ago during bondage play with an ex, but it never lasted more than half an hour on a couple of occasions and was just part of a seemingly endless exposure to the bondage devices and activities (part of me misses those days:0)
I stumbled across Chastity again during one of my many sessions watching and masturbating to porn (I have quite an addiction to it). I was instantly aroused by the submission and control aspects; I get turned on knowing I’m turning on my partner, but I must also admit I was surprised that I was also attracted to sissies and their little caged cocks. To be honest, that bit caught me off guard as I love women, and men’s bodies do nothing for me (but the sissy had me getting a confused boner:0), so I did what I always do and wanked over it letting my clock decide.
I’m married but my wife isn’t quite as sexually open as I am, so I haven’t really spoken to her about it other than an odd comment here and there saying she likes the thought of it when seeing her reaction (afraid there wasn’t much of one). I want to get into chastity more to help me control my porn addiction but also to make me more submissive to her. By day, I’m a manager and consultant so I’m usually the boss; therefore, submission is very intimate for me, and chastity embodies that submission by handing over control of the thing that defines males.
At the moment, I work away from home often, so if my wife doesn’t actively take part, I will try self-chastity. Well, I’ll give it a go as I may need to work on my willpower:0). I’m used to pleasuring myself because I like that inevitable release.
Any advice for someone new to this world would be welcome; first off, what device is good for a starter? Jay PS, sorry if that wasn’t quite as short as planned PPS, there are some incredibly sexy pictures of both mistresses and their slaves here Thanks for letting me into your world