My wife locked me up for the first time two weeks ago, and I stayed fully caged during that initial week. She’s never really shown interest in kink before, but I suggested chastity might benefit our marriage, and a few days later she brought it up again and told me to purchase a cage. Surprisingly enough, I found myself becoming more naturally attentive to her during the first week, doing exactly what she asked around the house immediately and even taking initiative with tasks that would please her. At one point, I was kneeling naked before her giving her a foot massage while she sat fully clothed on the couch. I offered oral sex frequently (almost begging in some instances). She nearly let slip her deepest kinky desires during this time too. I didn’t pester her or whine; I never asked for any sexual needs to be met. I made it clear that she should do what she wants without feeling pressured, and she doesn’t even need to acknowledge my chastity status. She said she felt no pressure and was perfectly fine with everything.
Then we had a minor disagreement (I shouldn’t have been so foolish as to argue back—lesson learned). She claimed that chastity was a silly idea and wanted more sex rather than less, asking how locking it up would help us. So we unlocked the cage, I put it away, and didn’t discuss it further later that night, though she seemed slightly regretful.
After another week of silence as we lay in bed, I suggested maybe we should lock me up again? She said YES emphatically almost before I finished speaking. She locked me before heading out for the day. I imagine many couples going through the initial chastity phase experience similar things, and I hope she won’t unlock me so easily this time. I have a feeling these are the lessons that establish our new power dynamic properly as she understands what she wants and enjoys about my being caged.
So how long will we last this time? If I don’t argue back, it should be longer—place your bets.