I’ve come across several discussions at the mansion regarding how to recognize whether you or your partner is involved in chastity… Naturally, we all understand that a key attached to a necklace or anklet signals someone as being, or potentially becoming, a keyholder. However, what if the person wearing the device wishes to open up for dialogue, or if a keyholder wants to signal their kept status for others to see?… I recently found a video explaining BDSM flagging and the Hanky Code. It turns out this is primarily a system used by men in the gay BDSM community to convey a preferred kink or desired sexual activity. My question is… Would using a handkerchief as a flag be helpful for indicating that someone is wearing a chastity device? If yes, what color and which pocket would work best?
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