So I am new to male chastity and so far cannot believe the experience. Never even knew these things existed until just recently when my girlfriend sprung it on me to try wearing one. Her old boyfriend introduced her to the idea etc won’t go into detail here but she likes it. She took it very slowly for what she calls the break-in period. I only wore it a day or two and then she would leave it off at night and did this until I have gone a total of 5 days now as my max and I was climbing walls at that point. So horny I could hardly take it. I know some of you go months etc but I am new to this and a couple of days is a long time for me right now. She makes it fun for me and I have developed a trust and bond with her. So I have been playing along. After one of our dates, I went home after making out, etc all wound up and I really did want to JO. My hormones were raging. You, woman, are soft and sexy and hard to forget. I texted her that I was tempted to break this thing off. Seems she didn’t like that idea much. It appears to have invited the opportunity to explore other options like a metal device and… Were sitting on the couch and she bribes me in her sexy seductive own way. She would do something If I would just listen to a hypnosis file for her before and after she did what she said she would do. At first, I laughed. I have never done anything like this and I knew there was NO WAY a hypnosis file was going to have an impact on me and I was really wanting her to do what she said she would do so she kind of had me if you will. She promised there was no weird stuff in it and nothing would happen I didn’t want it to happen. She assured me that hypnosis cannot make me do anything I don’t want to do? hmmm. She has a friend deep into this stuff as a hypnotist so I suppose this is where she got the idea. She said if I am lucky it would just help me through those times I want to JO and would help her with putting it back on for her after she removes it. That would give her greater peace of mind for now until we get the metal device. Apparently, there is this part of me that just wants to acquiesce and give her what she wants because I am getting so much in return. So is she, by the way, its clearly a two-way street just different. Like chastity, I know nothing about hypnosis but I agreed and listened to this with my mind on alert for anything unusual. It was very calming and relaxing. I won’t go into detail because I don’t want to type it all out here but I did listen before and after her promised release and yes it was well worth it. It was a very pleasant experience that I have not gotten out of my mind since thank you! Not so surprisingly I seemed to fall asleep on the second time listening after an orgasm. Looking back I kind of think she suspected that would happen? However, I woke up feeling just fine when it finished not remembering a damn thing it said. She loaded it on my phone just in case I wanted to listen again. She was so cute it made her all giddy and bubbly. The next morning I woke up and the first thing on my mind was to listen to that stupid file. I was like you have to be kidding me? That night after work I listened to it again. I have done this now for some…5 days. So I know someone is going to ask… does the file actually work? The damn security suggestion seems to be working. Apparently, according to her, my subconscious knows when I want to try to manipulate the cage to get relief. She explained it is relatively simple to prevent one from gaining a release by cheating/shaking/touching the cage etc. hmmm okay… We have not tested what happens when I take it off yet and I am so ready to take it off right now. She says it will be strongly compelled to put it back on if I try to JO behind her back or she tells me to put it on. Seems like a long shot to me. We shall see. I was understandably skeptical but even if the suggestions are working, I feel like I am sort of pretending and playing along with it. all, not like I am being forced to do something. But I have been unable to try to touch the device since that first night if I want relief. If I try to manipulate the cage for anything other than cleaning or adjusting I just stop. It feels fake but I keep doing it. I have not been able to shake the cage since the first night. The more I try, the more quickly it seems to work and I just stop… LIke I am in an unnoticeable calming state of mind so to speak, my hands just stop cold as I feel like i just pause. So I am now wondering… 5 days later, why I still haven’t been able to bypass this security if this is all nonsense? Am I pretending, or is this really working? The lines are blurred for me right now. The longer this goes on, the more I question if I am indeed getting trapped and controlled by her this way. My girlfriend could not be happier. She is beside herself and cannot wait to see how putting it back on works out for her. I am sort of curious myself. I want to not do it just to show her. Honestly, it is a turn on but it is also getting frustrating that I cannot shake the cage when I want. I just tried now. I told myself this time I am REALLY going to do this and my hands just freeze and I go calm when I try. Then as an unintended side benefit as she calls it, he tries to get hard making me really want to shake the cage for relief and I cannot. F*C(! It feels so fake but it just keeps working. It is messing with my head. Does anyone else have experience with this sort of thing? If this is working how long will it work. It’s not harmful or anything just frustrating the hell out of me that I cannot shake the cage for even a smidgen of relief and she seems to be fully enjoying this by taking advantage of it. More on that later.
> steve_p said: > So I am new to male chastity and so far cannot believe the experience. Never even knew these things existed until just recently when my girlfriend sprung it on me to try wearing one. Her old boyfriend introduced her to the idea etc won't go into detail here but she likes it. > She took it very slowly for what she calls the break-in period. I only wore it a day or two and then she would leave it off at night and did this until I have gone a total of 5 days now as my max and I was climbing walls at that point. So horny I could hardly take it. I know some of you go months etc but I am new to this and a couple of days is a long time for me right now. > She makes it fun for me and I have developed a trust and bond with her. So I have been playing along. After one of our dates, I went home after making out, etc all wound up and I really did want to JO. My hormones were raging. You, woman, are soft and sexy and hard to forget. I texted her that I was tempted to break this thing off. Seems she didn't like that idea much. It appears to have invited the opportunity to explore other options like a metal device and... > Were sitting on the couch and she bribes me in her sexy seductive own way. She would do something If I would just listen to a hypnosis file for her before and after she did what she said she would do. At first, I laughed. I have never done anything like this and I knew there was NO WAY a hypnosis file was going to have an impact on me and I was really wanting her to do what she said she would do so she kind of had me if you will. > She promised there was no weird stuff in it and nothing would happen I didn't want it to happen. She assured me that hypnosis cannot make me do anything I don't want to do? hmmm. She has a friend deep into this stuff as a hypnotist so I suppose this is where she got the idea. > She said if I am lucky it would just help me through those times I want to JO and would help her with putting it back on for her after she removes it. That would give her greater peace of mind for now until we get the metal device. Apparently, there is this part of me that just wants to acquiesce and give her what she wants because I am getting so much in return. So is she, by the way, its clearly a two-way street just different. > Like chastity, I know nothing about hypnosis but I agreed and listened to this with my mind on alert for anything unusual. It was very calming and relaxing. I won't go into detail because I don't want to type it all out here but I did listen before and after her promised release and yes it was well worth it. It was a very pleasant experience that I have not gotten out of my mind since thank you! Not so surprisingly I seemed to fall asleep on the second time listening after an orgasm. Looking back I kind of think she suspected that would happen? However, I woke up feeling just fine when it finished not remembering a damn thing it said. She loaded it on my phone just in case I wanted to listen again. She was so cute it made her all giddy and bubbly. > The next morning I woke up and the first thing on my mind was to listen to that stupid file. I was like you have to be kidding me? That night after work I listened to it again. I have done this now for some...5 days. > So I know someone is going to ask... does the file actually work? The damn security suggestion seems to be working. Apparently, according to her, my subconscious knows when I want to try to manipulate the cage to get relief. She explained it is relatively simple to prevent one from gaining a release by cheating/shaking/touching the cage etc. hmmm okay... > We have not tested what happens when I take it off yet and I am so ready to take it off right now. She says it will be strongly compelled to put it back on if I try to JO behind her back or she tells me to put it on. Seems like a long shot to me. We shall see. > I was understandably skeptical but even if the suggestions are working, I feel like I am sort of pretending and playing along with it. all, not like I am being forced to do something. But I have been unable to try to touch the device since that first night if I want relief. If I try to manipulate the cage for anything other than cleaning or adjusting I just stop. It feels fake but I keep doing it. I have not been able to shake the cage since the first night. The more I try, the more quickly it seems to work and I just stop... LIke I am in an unnoticeable calming state of mind so to speak, my hands just stop cold as I feel like i just pause. > So I am now wondering... 5 days later, why I still haven't been able to bypass this security if this is all nonsense? Am I pretending, or is this really working? The lines are blurred for me right now. The longer this goes on, the more I question if I am indeed getting trapped and controlled by her this way. > My girlfriend could not be happier. She is beside herself and cannot wait to see how putting it back on works out for her. I am sort of curious myself. I want to not do it just to show her. > Honestly, it is a turn on but it is also getting frustrating that I cannot shake the cage when I want. I just tried now. I told myself this time I am REALLY going to do this and my hands just freeze and I go calm when I try. Then as an unintended side benefit as she calls it, he tries to get hard making me really want to shake the cage for relief and I cannot. F*C(! It feels so fake but it just keeps working. It is messing with my head. > Does anyone else have experience with this sort of thing? If this is working how long will it work. It's not harmful or anything just frustrating the hell out of me that I cannot shake the cage for even a smidgen of relief and she seems to be fully enjoying this by taking advantage of it. > More on that later. > Click to expand... I'll tell you this right now. The hypnosis is working on you. The reason you seem to want to listen to it, is because there is a suggestion in there that tells you to. Which in turn further buries the other suggestions deeper into your subconscious. So you are basically trapped by whatever your girlfriend has in mind for you. She has all the control now, not you.
> Doczilla421 said: > I'll tell you this right now. The hypnosis is working on you. The reason you seem to want to listen to it, is because there is a suggestion in there that tells you to. Which in turn further buries the other suggestions deeper into your subconscious. So you are basically trapped by whatever your girlfriend has in mind for you. She has all the control now, not you. > Click to expand... This is the sort of stuff I have to deal with while wearing this thing....? bkZFsxV Read the bottom one first. I am becoming convinced you are right. As much as it feels fake it's really working on me somehow. feeling fake or real the fact is I am unable to touch the cage without freezing and she is not making this any easier for me right now.
> steve_p said: > This is the sort of stuff I have to deal with while wearing this thing....? > bkZFsxV > Read the bottom one first. > > I am becoming convinced you are right. As much as it feels fake it's really working on me somehow. feeling fake or real the fact is I am unable to touch the cage without freezing and she is not making this any easier for me right now. > Click to expand... What hypnosis file does she have you listening to. Post a link to it if ya can.
Saturday morning journaling from Friday date. First I found myself becoming far more interested in the book she sent me then I expected. a book on Cunnilingus of all things. Honestly, it got my attention. Helping me look at this act in a different and more pleasing way Picking her up for her date she looked beyond amazing. I have a thing for leather and she knows it. She wore a Sexy little mini leather skirt and black high heel boots that were causing me problems all night. Kissing her and putting my hands on her leather ass I thought I was going to break this cage from the pressure. It's such a sexy thing to me. Do women have any idea how damn sexy they are? Something about leather and heels just gets me going. Yes, she had me practice on her AND I FINALLY got out. My orgasm felt better than any other orgasm I may have ever had. I have been locked for a week and that has to be the longest I have ever gone without one since my first experience in adolescence. I was really starting to feel a desire to just jack off. I miss it at times so much. After she said put your chastity back on I found it to be much Like my experience of not being able to touch myself. I felt like I was just going along with it yet at the same time I was not stopping and that was my intended goal. All in know is about 5 min. after I orgasmed and she said put it back on, I was cleaned up and back in the device and it actually felt really good to have it back on. I will mention, I have a newly discovered fetish, she has the softest cutest little painted toes and feet I have ever seen. It's becoming a serious turn on and she started this by having me rub her feet a while back. It's very hard to do with this cage on. Taking these knee-high heel boots off last night and rubbing her soft sexy feet and legs had me ready to explode and once she took this off I did. I really don't think she can comprehend the aftermath of the impact this has on me when she is not around. I think of it and it turns me on so much. Sometimes I think Its soooooo unfair that I am being caged and she is getting all the orgasms she wants until I feel what I felt last night. So, I decided to fight back I told her I am going to get so good at cunnilingus she won't be able to stop thinking about my warm soft wet slow moving torturing tongue between her legs. I have to find things that make her horny too because I can't turn it off with this thing locked on.. She says the power she feels from this is enough but I want her wet and horny like she is doing to me. Two can play this game just differently. This is called a journal and I know I ramble a bit but it feels good to get it out. More to come.
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