Linda and I have been married for over fifteen years. We share a wonderful connection and have always maintained an active sexual relationship, having intercourse at least three or four times weekly even after all this time.
About two years ago, Linda proposed some dramatic changes to our sex life. We are both somewhat adventurous—public sex, anal play for both of us, watching videos; really, nothing was off-limits for us.
So when she suggested a major shift, I was open to it.
Linda told me she wanted to become my mistress and control when I am allowed to ejaculate. I thought this sounded like fun.
It began with her preventing me from cumming once or twice a week. We would be having sex, and she would command me to pull out so she could finish using her strap-on instead.
I didn’t mind; in fact, I started enjoying it.
During the first six months, the frequency of my allowed releases decreased until I was permitted only one cum per week.
By the end of that first year, I was ejaculating just once a month even though we were having sex most days. The more Linda withheld release from me, the better she seemed to enjoy it, and our sexual activity increased.
She said she enjoyed the power of denying my orgasm almost as much as her own pleasure.
After twelve months passed, she told me she wanted to raise my frustration levels further.
Linda announced that I was no longer allowed to masturbate. Before this rule change, masturbation had been my relief valve; I would do it at work or when Linda wasn’t home.
At first, I wasn’t sure because I hadn’t been cumming much from our sex life anyway, but Linda insisted that if I truly loved her, I should agree.
After a week of consideration, I agreed.
Adjusting was difficult. I had gone from ejaculating three or four times a week to just once a month. I have to admit that sometimes I cheated when the urge became too strong.
Around month three, my wife came home early and caught me masturbating. She was very upset with me, and we didn’t have sex at all that week.
I apologized to Linda and promised to do anything to show her my loyalty.
The next week she said she had a way to ensure I remained faithful.
Whatever it was, I told her I would do it.
She then produced something called an Elastrator. I asked what it was and how it worked.
She explained that since she didn’t fully trust me, she wanted to guarantee I wouldn’t cum.
Linda said she would place bands around the base of my penis with the intention of damaging my nerves.
I asked Linda what the outcome would be. She told me that the bands would bring my cock into a state she called “numbness.” I could still get an erection, but I wouldn’t be able to ejaculate.
It sounded reasonable, so I agreed to a six-month banding period.
We started gradually:
3 bands for 10 minutes every 3 days.
The effect was initially just slight numbness; if I tried hard enough, I could still cum. However, my sensitivity began to drop.
After two weeks, Linda announced that my trial period was over and the real banding would begin. We moved to daily sessions:
3 x 30-minute sessions in the morning and 3 x 30-minute sessions at night.
This intense phase lasted four days. By day four, I was completely numb with no feeling in my penis.
Linda continued the banding for another three days. By day seven, my cock was so numb that I could barely feel it existed.
We were still having daily sex, but now I couldn’t even tell when her body was inside me.
I remained very horny and still got erections, but with absolutely no sensation, there was no chance of cumming. The only way I knew we were having intercourse was by feeling my hips move.
Once Linda reached this stage, the heavy banding sessions were needed only two or three times a week.
It has now been six months since I was allowed to ejaculate normally, and I don’t even try to masturbate anymore because it feels pointless. I can’t feel my cock in my hand, making orgasm impossible.
As for Linda, she is loving the situation. She gets off daily and says she enjoys it more knowing that while I am capable of cumming, I simply cannot do so.
For me, I have actually grown to enjoy the frustration. I am always horny but powerless to relieve it. My cock is now so numb that I don’t even feel urine passing through my urethra.
I never have wet dreams because I lack the nerve muscle response for them. Linda has a prostate milking once a month for health reasons.
When she milks me, I can see the cum coming out, but there is no sensation at all.
So here we are, and Linda wants to take things to the next level.
Linda tells me that she misses the feeling of my semen inside her and has a solution. At first, I thought she was going to stop the banding so I could cum again.
However, she announced that she wants to bring home a friend from work. Linda promised nothing has happened yet between them, but she intends for him to become her lover.
I asked what this meant for me. Linda said she still plans to keep me banded because she doesn’t want me cumming.
She will only have sex with the new man while I am present in the house, though I must stay in another room.
So I need to decide whether to allow Linda this arrangement. She says that if I love her enough, I should grant her wish. As for me, she believes I will no longer be permitted to have sex with her directly and, since I can’t feel it anyway, I should accept this fate.
I just want everyone’s thoughts on whether I should grant Linda her wishes.
Thank you