Hello, I’m S and have a long-distance romance with A, roughly 120 miles apart. We met two years back. Before meeting A, I had dabbled in D/s for a bit, and 18 months ago I brought up the topic of chastity. It was new to her, so we spent many late nights chatting about it. We felt that lifestyle might work well for us both, so I decided to give it a go alongside an FLR. On Sunday evening when I mailed off the key to her, my heart was pounding and hands trembling. We’ve done several rounds of chastity/FLR periods. Wanting to hand over more authority, we tried financial control about six months ago. I opened a specific account for A’s sole use, moved all my funds there, and set up direct deposits from my salary. Initially, it was time-limited: A managed everything while deciding how much I got back for socializing etc. There were some growing pains since I found the adjustment tricky, but after a few tries, we seem to have settled into a good rhythm. I’m in chastity again now. A has total command over my money and holds final authority on decisions ranging from spending limits to what clothes I wear. This time it’s for the long haul with no set end date. I’ve never felt more at peace, and if you really trust your partner, I highly recommend financial control.
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