Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

devotion to the person for whom I do it

I'ts hard to explain - it's an easy question but could be a deep one, hence why I asked it. First, it means freedom. Sex can be very addicting and when I'm wearing my device, it feels like control has been re-established. Because sex is harder to get, it's no longer a temptation. It really does feel like I've been freed of a burden. Each day in chastity is a day of true freedom. That's how I keep track. I don't look at them as 'days locked', I look at them as, 'days free'. Second, it might just be me but, as a TG being locked up allows me to disassociate myself from that part of my body. I hate that 1% of my body and if I'm wearing my device, it feels like it's not there at all. Lastly, comfort. It has a very calming effect on me. I'm much calmer and I don't know if it's because of lack of orgasms or the device. I know that one can wear a device and still orgasm - and that one can be chaste without a device so they're not necessarily connected...thus I'm not sure which to credit, but I AM calmer now. Bonus: More freedom. There were times when, just being honest, the wife wanted sex and I just wasn't in the mood. Want to start a fight with a woman? Turn her down for sex. Women turn men down and the man just has to 'deal' with it....no pouting, crying or complaining. Turn a woman down for sex and OH MY GOD! With me in chastity and someone else doing that for her, the pressure is off in that regard. I never *have* to have sex again, in fact, I plan not to.

some device to hold my erection and my bad habbit of masturbation..