Novices and newbies discussion

I’ve finally tracked down a device that works now that I’ve been locked away for almost seven days without any release. It’s especially helpful since I started wearing it full-time back on Male Chastity Day. My wife holds the key, and we’ve dabbled in chastity life for about two years, but devices have always let us down. She’s really gotten into my cage lately; yesterday she took charge with teasing more than ever … [Bites lip] On top of that, I need to help out more around the house since a serious health scare kept me mostly stuck in bed over Christmas. Now I’m slowly heading back to work. The real question is how do I elevate my wife? She’s basically vanilla but with some fun extras. How can I step up and submit more readily while satisfying both her practical needs and sexual ones? Also, how can I encourage her to grab the reins and exercise that control? Starting this Lent (tomorrow), we’ve agreed on a diet of only wholesome food and drink for me (I already have to ask permission before buying non-essentials since February). So I’m curious: do any keyholders or others here have tips on how she can take charge without feeling overwhelmed, while also ensuring my needs aren’t just shoved aside? My goal is for her to see if she enjoys the power dynamic and for me to handle what comes with it. Please share your thoughts: How can we make this Lent memorable?