Hi everyone. I’ve discovered that staying chaste can be quite freeing for the mind and thoughts. With that in mind, I want to share with you all that I’m currently mid-session and also playing solo. Being Locked/Keyholder means everything is within my control. My fantasies go wild at times, taking me to new horizons which I look forward to exploring once I am free. These destinations tend to be highly rewarding; truly making the time worthwhile! Others, on the flip side, find it less impressive…more meh than anything else. To choose the best outcomes, I usually prefer some structure for my session; this builds anticipation and helps me set a sense of commitment toward a clear goal. Improvisation is welcome too as it keeps things interesting and fresh. The way sessions typically begin involves what I call the penalty. The penalty is a passive condition or ritual performed daily that gradually improves a habit or aspect of life I wish to enhance. For instance, waking up at 7 AM every morning, having one less cup of coffee per day, or perhaps no porn between x hour and x hour. This also serves as a reminder of what I’m going through and helps reinforce my commitment to see the session through until the end. The next phase is the ordeal. Here, limits are tested and commitments put to the test. Following a rigorous daily exercise routine, opening up to others, blogging, or seeking new sexual pleasures are all fair game along with other activities. Finally comes the resolution in which a final task is completed so that the lock can be officially opened! Anyway, I just wanted to share some of my thoughts while on my journey into chastity and self-discovery. I’m curious if there are others who follow a structured and rigorous path or perhaps let their situation and mood dictate their freer spirit. Thank you for reading! P.S I am working on my avatar.
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