Hi there! I’m a recent addition to the site as of June, and I wanted to introduce myself. I stumbled upon this place while following some blogs, particularly Denying Thumper, which led me down several other threads. Somewhere in that process, I heard about this community for its members and its sale forum. It seemed like an amazing group, so I signed up. I’ve been into Chastity for roughly ten years now, first encountering it at Mr. S leather shop here in San Francisco. The devices back then were massive. I bought a seed pod made of heavy steel; while it had that cool, medieval vibe, its weight was quite uncomfortable given the small size, so I ended up wedging foam inside to keep it from slipping out. It’s definitely more suited for short-term wear, but it looked great. Over time, they started releasing sleeker devices designed for long-term use, crafted by local artisans. However, I hesitated to invest back then because my experience with the seed pod made me question how sustainable a long-term setup would be. This year was when I really took another look at the options and decided to give the holy trainer v3 a go. It’s been pretty good so far using the smallest ring available, though it does have a tendency to twist. At night, one of the balls tends to pinch me sharply, causing that intense gut-punch sensation. When I wake up, I usually just take it off and resume wearing it during the day. This isn’t very practical if I were under someone’s key control. I really want to invest in a proper metal device like the steelheart. It looks stunning, but I need to work my way into that commitment first. From a sexual perspective, I don’t necessarily need to cum to feel satisfied, though I do enjoy being on the bottom side of things. So perhaps this is an easy transition for me. Even so, I’m not entirely convinced I’d actually need a device beyond just enjoying the aesthetic gear factor. Anyway, looking forward to becoming part of the community.
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