Journals and blogs discussion

It’s not really a concern for me since there won’t be any lingering effects after the period of chastity ends, but I see couples who start out and it remains uncertain whether they’ll maintain that dynamic. So here is my question. If you’ve experimented with being the keyholder, feeling in control of his sexual activity as well as all other aspects… what would your thoughts be once you decide it’s no longer for you? Would you constantly wonder if he was satisfying himself? Would you ask him to hold back even without the device? Would you expect him to reclaim a dominant role? Would you anticipate some of the “benefits” of chastity continuing? What would occupy your mind when you both realize the device is removed, control has shifted, and his behavior reverts to normal? I imagine it would always be in the back of your head, even though he isn’t wearing anything before. Obviously, if you’re still active here, you don’t know for certain yet, but you do wonder what those thoughts might look like afterwards. For me personally, I think it would wound her feelings, and I’d view stopping as a personal slight against me.