Hi there, my wife and I are new to this scene and really enjoying it so far. I wasn’t certain she would take to it, but she has, and I believe she’s liking it even more than I am. We tried out Chinese cb6000s; however, the basering snapped during my first erection because it was the largest size. Now we are using a 3-ring cage with a 50mm base ring. It’s been great: my wife started by locking me for one day, and we had wonderful intimacy—I gave her an orgasm orally before she unlocked me, followed by fantastic sex that felt better than ever! To my surprise, she told me to wash up so I could be locked again immediately after the next session went from two days to three. It’s perfect; she is enjoying it as much as I am. She has started adding extra days for punishment and giving me chores, which brings us closer together.
However… one issue remains: I know I can get out of this device on my own, which kind of ruins the experience for me even though I haven’t cheated yet or released myself without permission (knowing I could spoils it). I’ve had a few accidental slip outs at work, and she has come to my rescue to lock me back up. Also, when I shower, if I sit down afterwards, my balls fall through the ring. Any help or advice would be appreciated. When dry and everything is locked in place, there really isn’t much room to move; sometimes my penis gets quite restricted too. I’m worried a smaller ring might cause pain and discomfort, which already happens when I am erect at night and wake me up. Can anyone suggest another device that is budget-friendly?