For the first time in over four and a half years, my wife refused to unlock me before I headed out for several hours. She did this even though she knew how uncomfortable it was for me to stay locked up while doing what needed to be done. Last night, she expressed regret about allowing me an orgasm two weeks ago because I seem like a different, moodier person now, and she needs to reconsider my schedule for those moments.
I am reminded of myself and many other men who come here complaining or asking questions about their wives who don’t want to act as Key Holders. There is hope, and perhaps even more than you might have hoped for. I am discovering this the hard way. Now when I wake up, my thought is whether I really want to continue with this practice, whereas before it was hoping that my wife wanted to keep going. Somewhere along the line, I lost most of my say and control.