So, I opened up to my Queen about my chastity needs and showed her my cage along with why I needed it (constant masturbation without her knowing). I’ve worn it for a couple of weeks now; she seems tolerant but not particularly interested. We’ve had sex a few times, and my orgasms have been intense—which she loves—whereas before, when I was constantly masturbating, I might not even cum at all.
She is open to the idea of me wearing the cage for a day or two before sex so that I can build up to the big event, but I’m looking toward longer stretches. Do any of the women here have similar experiences in the beginning? Did things eventually shift to a longer time frame? My worry is that I’ll slip back into regular stroking until it’s time for caging again, and I won’t perform as well as I do with long-term caging.