Fetish has always been my thing. Latex vacuum beds, ESTIM, Venus 2000—I know them well. I tried to get my wife on board with BDSM, but she said it wasn’t her scene and wouldn’t explore that side. So, I’ve kept practicing solo using the vac beds. You can check out my latexvacbed Fetlife or strap0nme XTube profile if you like. My real wish is for her to share this fetish interest. Lately, though, my urges have been strong, leading me to either use the Venus 2000 or masturbate frequently. This has left me with lower stamina during sex with my wife unless I take a blue pill. That’s why I decided to try male chastity. I’ve secretly worn it for two days now. Wearing it at work was quite an experience; focusing became difficult. The gym workouts were even more distracting because running caused the cage to rub against my glans, giving me slight erections as it pressed against the steel. Sorry for rambling! My question is: how should I introduce chastity to my wife and let her take control with the key, considering our history?
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