Yumbojones Early Steps Forward

Seeing that things have gone reasonably well with the initial mention of chastity with my wife I said I would start keeping a log of this journey as best I can. Small backstory I have been interested in all things femdon for as long as I can remember back to when I was a teenager being taught by some very strict nuns but when I got married that side of me kind of took a back seat. It was only after we had our first child that my desire started again. I used the Internet to look at femdom porn and masturbated quite frequently to this. I hid this side of my personality for several years. It was after the birth of our first child that we began to experiment with lingerie, sex toys etc. It was at this time that she began using a strap on to fuck me with. This was my suggestion. From what I can see she gets no pleasure from using the strap on me. I usually masturbate until I cum when she fucks me. We would use the strap on every couple of months maybe. Aside from that we’re pretty vanilla. 16/11/18 Following on from our initial chat about chastity and subsequent ordering of a device, I’ve since ordered a further 2 Chinese devices. All fairly cheap plastic knock offs. These are due within the next week or so I reckon. 25/11/18 We have had another great chat about chastity this weekend. We were out for a few drinks and I mentioned it again. She explained that she could not see the point of it and what did I have to gain from it. I spoke about my fantasy around it and explained the benefits for her. Increased closeness, more help around the house, me having to earn release and her becoming the main focus of our sexy life. She was pleased enough with what I had to say and said she’d do some research online I’m amazed how well this is going! I hope I don’t mess it up. Any tips at this point are very welcome