Hi everyone - it’s been ages since my last post, and the past fifteen months have been quite an experience - mostly positive in my view. For most of that time, Mistress Sara has kept me secured, with only a few breaks here and there lasting three or four weeks because she got busy or distracted. But 2018 wrapped up with eleven consecutive weeks locked down, no orgasms allowed, and the cage was only removed for basic hygiene needs. She plans to keep this momentum going. Meanwhile, Sara’s long road to recovery from her chronic illness has reached a great point where she is back in good form; her libido has returned powerfully. Now, she only deals with occasional short bursts of exhaustion that used to leave her bedridden for weeks. She has played a key role in creating several “additional measures” to keep me focused on loving and worshipping her, which she adores. She is also rediscovering her inner HotWife by seeing a regular Bull (if once a month counts as regular - though their meetings are spectacular) and having impromptu hookups with another guy who serves well as a Fuck Buddy. I helped find both partners for her. As we step into 2019, she has decided to change the multi-week lock cycles; the cage will remain in place permanently throughout the year, except when business trips or other practicalities require its removal. For the first three months, she allows me up to three releases. I get to choose the timing and method. In the meantime, she is becoming more serious about “management and control,” with spankings happening more often. A bonus benefit of our new home shower room is that we are having regular watersports (with her targeting me), rather than just occasionally when traveling in nice hotels. She has also had me wearing panties frequently over the past year. My special Christmas gift this time (alongside two release sessions during the holidays after those 11 weeks) was a set of stockings, suspenders, and knickers she picked out. She is really getting into the humiliation side of our specific version of the “lifestyle” and keeps surprising me with her erotic ideas and plans. A Collar will be one of the next steps. As you can see, we seem to be moving towards an FLR dynamic at home, while I remain the Alpha male outside our little bubble. To the outside world, we look like a standard, hard-working vanilla couple. By the way - we live together and work together in our specialty international business, which explains all the travel. If you are interested in following how our journey progresses (please let me know), I will try to post regular updates throughout this coming year - it looks like it will continue to be quite a ride. If that works for everyone, I’ll aim for weekly posts. Yeldarb
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